Frequently Asked Questions

I noticed you practice safer sex. Does this apply to oral sex or rimming?

I will generally use a condom for oral sex. I am more flexible on not using a dental dam for cunnilingus or rimming due to research that suggests that's less risky- however, I may inspect you to make sure you're clean. If you ask nicely I'll wear my nurse costume!

I am disabled/trans/female/in a couple. Will you see me/us?

Certainly! I have experience with disabled clients and sexuality, trans people all over the spectrum, women both as a customer and as a sex worker, and couples.

Do you ever offer submissive sessions?

I have done so before, but only with clients I've seen 3+ times, and within very specific boundaries. Additionally, I just don't enjoy submitting as much as I used to!

I'm a student. Do you offer a discount?

Um, no. I don't get a discount on my groceries or rent after all!

Why are you in this business?

Well, a few reasons.

-I'm a student getting a PhD in human sexuality, and this sort of work is the best hands on experience a person can have!

-With an education in psychology and anthropology, I have an incredibly open mind and can enjoy all sorts of fantasies. I've read everything from the Marquis de Sade to Pat Califia, from Black Lace to Penthouse Letters. Nothing shocks me.

-I really enjoy sexuality in all its forms. Not all kinks are for me, but I'll generally try something and see how I feel about it. I rarely write something off. And, because of that, I've had all sorts of experiences- threesomes, public sex, playing with gender, role plays... you name it.

You can learn more about that, and other sex-work-related issues, at my blog.

If you like _____ so much, will you do me for cheaper/free?

I do enjoy the work I do, but it's also my job. You may enjoy computer programming, but you wouldn't necessarily do it for hours without pay, right?

I'll also refer you to the section on being a better client- trying to negotiate fees is generally frowned upon.