How toBe A Good Client
Perhaps you're wondering how to get the best experience possible, or you're wondering how to be the sort of client girls look forward to. Or maybe you're just curious what being a good client entails!
Here is a brief guide to things that will endear you to your sex worker and inspire her to give you her best.
Ask for what you want
The more information and details you can offer us for your session, the better we can service you. If you struggle with asking for what you want, you will be disappointed when you don’t get it. You might get lucky, and your provider may figure it out, but we're not mind readers! Communication is the best lubricant.
Respect your provider
There are a lot of negative images out there regarding sex work. Some of them are true in some cases. However, don't make any assumptions about willingness, drug use, experience, or anything else. When you see me, you're meeting with a young, experienced, safety-conscious, educated, professional woman who enjoys a myriad of sexual behaviors.
Accept "No" gracefully
If your provider has stated boundaries to you, don't try to push those boundaries and think we won't notice. We will, and we'll feel less safe, less likely to play with you again, and very likely to warn our friends about you. And that's if we don't just take your money and end the session there.
Don't haggle
We've thought about our prices, and we change them of our own accord to be competitive for the experience, space, and services we offer. Trying to talk us down encourages us to cancel your booking faster than you can say "turn off"- it's degrading and insulting.
Be clean
Please... take a thorough shower, give yourself an enema (or ask me to!), use light or no scent. Think of it as a date where you know you'll get what you asked for by the end of the night, and prepare your body and mind accordingly.
Play safe
Your provider will likely tell you what her safer sex methods are: gloves, condoms, towels. Yes, you're paying, but your cash doesn't come before our safety (or your own!) Don’t protest that you’re “clean” or be offended. Be glad that we insist on these precautions, for your safety as well as ours. Again, respect her choices- or seek out a provider who offers what you want.
If you had an above-average time, tip!
I know it's more of a rare practice out here in the UK, but if you enjoyed yourself more than expected, or even just as a way to tell her you had a good time, tip. You're not obligated to. If you follow the above rules, and ask for what you want, I will provide you with an excellent session, no tipping necessary.
So why should you tip? What's in it for you? Well, as I don't expect tips, they go into my fun money. It means when I use your £20 tip to buy new lingerie, or to have a nice dinner, I'll think fondly and appreciatively of you and our encounter. You may get an extra 20% of enthusiasm next time because of it. Even a little tip goes a long way!
